#blamedrewscancer for this Post

by PJ Mullen on August 7, 2009

in Fatherhood Friday, Featured, Fun with Diabetes, Resolutions

Somehow July slipped past me and after reading E. Payne’s post from Wednesday I realized that I haven’t held myself accountable by writing an update on my resolutions. With the year more than half in the bag at this point I’m a little behind on some of the goals, but am working hard to get back on track.  Still, I’ve decided to #blamedrewscancer.

Overconfidence will kill you

I started off the year strong towards my goal of losing 25 pounds by dropping 14 quickly. In a total rookie move, however, I arrogantly upped my own ante in April and revised my goal to 30 pounds. However, with birthdays, vacations and holidays I’ve actually put on a net three pounds this past quarter.  We all know what excuses are akin to, but I actually gained a total of eight and quickly lost five – so, I’ve got that going for me.

On a good note, my diabetes is solidly in control and my latest lab results were encouraging. My a1c level (basically a three month look back at blood sugar levels) was a 6, which is considered normal, as compared with the 10.2 it was at back in November. I’m still on two medications to control it, but the change in my diet has been a major contributing factor to my near normal result.

I need to work on the whole exercise thing so I can reach not only my weight loss goal, but so I can hopefully reduce the strength of the two insulin sensitizing drugs I am taking. I’d love to eliminate one of the three prescription drugs I’m taking if at all possible, as I also take an ACE inhibitor more to protect my kidneys than to regulate blood pressure. Lastly, as if I wasn’t happy enough with my a1c level, I also found out that my cholesterol was a solid 165, down from 215 just nine months ago, so there will be no statin in my immediate future.

Off the market

Our house was on the market, and now it is not. It is a long story and I am not in the right frame of mind to go through the all the details right now. As unemotional as I am about the prospect of selling our home, I’m also not going to give it away. I worked my arse off turning it into something nice for my family, so, like Forrest Gump, that’s all I’m going to say about that.

Bliggity blogging

Probably the biggest success I’ve had in reaching my goals has been with the growth I’ve had right here on this blog. I won’t recap everything, but my readership has doubled in the past month based on feedburner, networked blogs and google friend connect figures. And I’m really starting to come out of my shell on Twitter. I’m not sharp witted enough to hanging with the likes of Weaselmomma, MochaDad or NukeDad (to name just a few of the many), but I have my moments.

I definitely see areas for improvements in my social networking life. Comments are big with me and I try to respond to every one I receive here and do my best to always leave one on the blogs I visit. If I don’t, see the above regarding the lack of a sharp wit. I do need to share more between Twitter and my Google Reader and I’m trying to decide if I post too much. I generally only post during the week and if anyone has any feedback for me on this I’d really appreciate it. Just make it constructive, I know I’m funny looking and dress poorly already.

Finally, between my guest post series at Building Camelot, music column at Dad-Blogs and my Examiner gig, I’m feeling good about my improving skills as a writer. At least, I hope you all think so and it’s not just the voices in my head.

#blamedrewscancer

In case you were wondering about the title of this post, and why I chose to toss a Twitter hashtag in there, you need to check out Blame Drew’s Cancer. The site is the work of Drew Olanoff who found out he had Hodgkins Lymphoma in May and is determined to beat it down.

Since his diagnosis he has been blaming everything possible on his cancer and has invited everyone to blame the things that go wrong in our day to day lives on his cancer. He is hoping to find a sponsor that will donate for each unique Twitter user that blames his cancer for something in a tweet and I wanted to pass along this unique idea and awesome cause.

So, the next time you get cut off on the road, some dumbass decides to write a check for $6 worth of groceries or a Columbian drug lord makes off with your TV go ahead and #blamedrewscancer.

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  • Very cool post, brotha! I didn't realize you had diabetes. I had a pledge bro in college who had diabetes. I recall him telling us about it, that it would never be an excuse and just as you quoted Forrest Gump, he said the same thing: "That’s all I’m going to say about that." I never heard him mention it again. I really had a lot of respect for that guy, as I do for you.

    Cholesterol can be a struggle but before you go on a statin try red yeast rice extract.
  • Yeah, found out just before Thanksgiving last year. My own fault for ignoring family history and not taking better care of myself. If I mention it, it will only be to educate others on what I'm doing to keep it in control. Fortunately, the cholesterol isn't an issue with my diet changes. I'll definitely check out the red yeast rice extract though. I need to get my LDL up a bit, just thankful my HDL dropped like a rock over the past few months.
  • I think that's great because I'm sure a lot of people (especially us reticent dudes) don't want to talk about it. The reason I have a lot of respect for people like my pledge bro and you, for example, is that you don't use it as an excuse. You're rocking like a dozen different projects all the while balancing family life. I'm just not sure I would be the same way and that's why I have a tremendous amount of respect for you.
  • Thanks man, I appreciate that. I'm sure if you had to deal with something like that, and I hope to hell you never do, you'll rally around it to beat its ass like I'm trying to do.
  • <3
  • Thanks for stopping by Drew. All the best to you, my family and I are pulling for you.
  • PJ, it is good to be back on your site again. Sorry I have been such a porr blogger friend. Congrats on all the good work with your health and on the blog. Hopefully I will be back soon.
  • No worries man, I know how busy you are. I hope Scotland is treating you well and you get back to your loved ones soon. You'll have to post about Haggis if you were so brave :) Safe travels home.
  • You and I have similar goals, especially when it comes to the weight thing. I would like to lose 25 lbs, and see where that takes me. I was there about 3 years ago, funny, my daughter will be 3 this month! My own doing though- I am the one who ate the cheeseburgers! Also, it's not just wit that brings people back , its also content and sincerity. I, too, am looking to increase my opportunities for writing. As for #blamedrewscancer, I will have to join in. What a release for Drew. As a pediatric specialist in a hospital setting, helping children with cancer is one of the area's that I practice as a PT, often because of the effects of the medication on the body. I learn so much about life from the children and their families, and not to be cliche-ish, but it is a very rewarding experience. -Jason
  • I have a lot of respect for what you do, that is definitely a hard thing to see children go through. My wife and I were learning about volunteer opportunities at the Ronald McDonald House they are building here in Charlotte. I feel like I need to give back after how blessed we have been with our son.
  • Glad ou are doing so well. Btw, you can totally hang out and keep up with the likes of me on twitter. I like the hashta and it sounds like fun for a good cause.
  • Thank you, I have my moments, but you all keep me in stitches. A lot of the time I'm that guy that has a great comeback ten minutes after the conversation has shifted.
  • Glad to see that you are making serious progress towards your self-set goals - I wish I had the wherewithal to make and work towards resolutions that don't involve words like "more" and "whiskey." Can I #blamedrewscancer for that?
  • I absolutely would #blamedrewscancer for that, after all it sounds like it definitely could be to blame.
  • I count you as a welcome new bloggin and tweetin friend. Keep the good stuff coming, and good luck with the other stuff.
  • Thanks, I feel the same. Glad we connected.
  • HA! Plenty to blame on "blamedrewscancer" but I wont. Just want to say I love your blog and the cool new pic? AWESOME! So, for that, we can still blamedrewscancer!

    Kudos!
  • Thanks man, I appreciate that. You should give it try, it made me feel a whole lot better :)
  • Smallprint
    Hello,

    Well done on the progression against the resolutions. It is really tough to keep a sustained focus on something that is difficult to accomplish - well I find it that way anyway!

    I am not brave enough to declare mine in this forum!

    Mark
  • Ha! Well, the way I figure it, if I put it out there and even one person calls me out on it or asks about it I need to be on my guard. It definitely has helped.
  • Glad you mentioned your Examiner page - just added it to mine (which I've been horribly remiss in keeping up with).

    Hearing of those with serious conditions certainly puts life in perspective; seeing them courageously fight to beat it gives hope and inspiration. Thanks for mentioning that.
  • Thanks man, I appreciate it. It is all my fault that I'm in the predicament. I ignored my family history and didn't take care of myself. Now I have no choice but to get my act together for my wife and son.

    BTW, how are you liking Echo? I noticed it on your blog when I read your post. I installed it on my business blog when I read about it on Mashable the other day, but wasn't brave enough to try it here.
  • Don't beat yourself up; you've got good motivation. And the echo thing, yeah, it's okay, but sometimes I can't track down new people leaving comments which is the main reason I set it up. Plus, I'd like for it to show other people's latest blog post. Of course this might be my own ineptitude as setting it up right too. Overall it's not bad.
  • Thanks, and you're right, I have very good motivation. Thanks for the feedback on Echo. I like how you can publish comments to multiple outposts to push the conversation out beyond the blog. I'm still playing around with the set up over on my businesses blog, maybe I'll get brave enough to try it here.
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