Happy second birthday little man

Last year I wrote and published a letter to my son on the occasion of his first birthday and I’m keeping with the tradition that I decided to establish by writing something directly to him each year. This blog has been a way for me to keep track of the many amazing memories of what being his father has been like and I hope someday, especially if he is fortunate enough to one day become a father, he’ll look back on my thoughts to help him understand his life.

Dear CJ,

Another year has come and gone and you have gone through even more changes. So much so that when I look back at pictures from the day you were born I can barely recognize you as that little baby I used to be able to hold in my arms.

Over the past year you’ve mastered walking, or more precisely, sprinting. You have also started talking and are close to uttering your first sentences. Each day we build new things with blocks and read an endless number of books that seem to have stirred your imagination.

Almost on a daily basis you surprise your mother and me with the things you’ve discovered in your world. Whether it is letters, numbers, shapes or words there is always something new for you to observe and dutifully report to us.

Even as you exert your independence, you have shown us great things in how considerate you can be. Whether making sure kitty has enough food in his bowl or sharing your toys with the kids you meet at class, we are very proud of you.

Big changes ahead

In a few months our family is going to be growing as your baby sister makes her appearance. This is probably going to be a little confusing to you even though you like to tell us about the baby that mama has in her belly.

And while we will be pretty busy taking care of your little sister when she is first born, we will do everything we can so you know that you will always be loved. No matter what you will always be important to us. The neat thing about love is that we will always have plenty of it to share with you both.

New responsibilities

As a big brother there is a whole bunch of new things that you’ll get to do. Your little sister will look up to you as you both grow up together. You can be there for her, help her with things, show her how to play with blocks and even one day read her stories from your books.

Being a big brother can be a lot of responsibility and at times you probably won’t always feel like it. Just know that your little sister is going to love you as much as your mother and I love you and you’ll be great at it.

Right now the concept of birthdays and things wrapped up in shiny paper may not mean a whole lot to you, but to us they are all part of this journey, your journey. We are honored to be part of it and excited for all the things your future holds.

As you celebrate your second birthday you are fortunate to be surrounded by family that loves you more than mere words can express.

Love always,

Papa