Tell Me Thursday: Gymboree time

Gymboree inflatable ball
Image by hale_popoki via Flickr

This past Monday I took my little man to his first ever Gymboree class.  It was a big step for us, as for the better part of the past eight months it has been just me and him at home after my wife went back to work.  Given that he is home with me all day, we were concerned with his social development skills since he doesn’t get much exposure to other children his age.  I feel like I’m on an island as a stay at home dad, and despite my recent blogging and twittering activities I am very much an introvert.  

It is much easier for me to type into WordPress in relative annonimity than it is for me to be out in social situations.  Who knows, maybe I need Paxil or something, but I just don’t make friends easily.  I have a small group of very close friends from college that are very important to me, but most of them don’t live anywhere near me anymore since I made the moved to Charlotte nearly eight years ago.

One of my biggest fears is passing this on to my son, that and with me as his sole influence there is a good chance that he will be in kindergarten quoting Bond movies instead of the Wiggles and complaining about the lack of a wifi connection that is preventing him from updating his Facebook profile with his iphone.

Fortunately my wife had the day off and was able to come with us to Gymboree.  I was very thankful for that, as I was the only father present at the class we went too.  Despite my feeling like a complete outcast, I sucked it up and ran through all the activities with my son.  All in all he had a great time.  He was laughing and giggling the whole time, checking out all the new faces and places.  So, seeing how much fun he had we signed him up for regular classes and I will now be adding Gymboree dad to my list of weekly duties.  It should be fun and I’m looking forward to watching him have all these new experiences.

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About PJ Mullen

PJ Mullen is a dad, husband, amateur chef and prolific air drummer blogging about his life as a dad and anything else that is on his mind. Occasionally he blogs about being a dad in the kitchen at peaches en risotto and is a contributor over at Digital Dads.

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  • http://www.tellmethursday.com Tell Me Thursday

    I bet he had a great time! Good for you — and him! Thanks again for your participation at TMT!

  • jason

    I totally understand. It's been me and my son at home for the last 2 years. I'm terrified to go out in public aside from my regular shopping trips. It's up to my wife to take the boys to the park. Our oldest grew up in daycare and is a social butterfly. I've just this week started a playdate with a neighbor who's son is only 4 months younger than mine and that went really well so we now have that to look forward to every Wednesday.

  • http://mommyinthewoods.blogspot.com/ Jenelle

    Love the Gymboree pictures! That should be a lot of fun. It's kinda sad how there's so many different “mommy and me” type groups that stay-at-home moms can be involved in but I don't know of anything for dads to do to socialize. I'm sure dads can go to groups with a bunch of chicks, but it might be weird for you. And your wife might not like it either. :) I know there's more and more stay-at-home dads all the time—maybe you should advertise and start your own group. Being in charge of something like that would help you branch out! It'd be like free therapy. :)

    I found your blog through Tell-Me-Thursday. It was nice to visit!

  • http://mommyinthewoods.blogspot.com/ Jenelle

    Love the Gymboree pictures! That should be a lot of fun. It's kinda sad how there's so many different “mommy and me” type groups that stay-at-home moms can be involved in but I don't know of anything for dads to do to socialize. I'm sure dads can go to groups with a bunch of chicks, but it might be weird for you. And your wife might not like it either. :) I know there's more and more stay-at-home dads all the time—maybe you should advertise and start your own group. Being in charge of something like that would help you branch out! It'd be like free therapy. :)

    I found your blog through Tell-Me-Thursday. It was nice to visit!

  • jason

    I totally understand. It's been me and my son at home for the last 2 years. I'm terrified to go out in public aside from my regular shopping trips. It's up to my wife to take the boys to the park. Our oldest grew up in daycare and is a social butterfly. I've just this week started a playdate with a neighbor who's son is only 4 months younger than mine and that went really well so we now have that to look forward to every Wednesday.

  • http://mommyinthewoods.blogspot.com/ Jenelle

    Love the Gymboree pictures! That should be a lot of fun. It's kinda sad how there's so many different “mommy and me” type groups that stay-at-home moms can be involved in but I don't know of anything for dads to do to socialize. I'm sure dads can go to groups with a bunch of chicks, but it might be weird for you. And your wife might not like it either. :) I know there's more and more stay-at-home dads all the time—maybe you should advertise and start your own group. Being in charge of something like that would help you branch out! It'd be like free therapy. :)

    I found your blog through Tell-Me-Thursday. It was nice to visit!

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